You are very welcome Tai. If you have anything you would like to ask, do so...and feel free to contribute anywhere on the forum. Your mum was very loved here.
Of course it is fine that you post here and it's great to have you here with us. You post anytime you feel like it- I'm always happy to see your posts!
We all (those that posted with her) miss your mother, Tai- nothing will ever replace her, nor should anything or anyone. She was truly a woman of dignity and grace, even knowing that her time was short, she still worried about everyone else, especially you and Charlotte.
thanks for the replies here and on the other thread. i have been reading some of my mums posts here. they make me cry but they also help me feel closer to her. i hope its ok for me to come here sometimes. i know mum liked to spend alot of time here and i just want to be near her. i dont really know that much about hep c except that it killed my mum but i really hope everyone here is ok and stays well. from Tai
I hope you get a chance to read the posts on here., I've checked them out over the past few days before I decided to write this as I really didn't know what to say to you. We'd like you to know that you are both in our thoughts. I'm sure that you both are experiencing a whole range of emotions from pain, sadness, fear even anger but that is a natural part of grieving. Your mum was a brave, strong, wonderful person, an inspiration to us all. Remember that she loved you both so very much, her 'beautiful children' as she called you, she was so proud of you both, try to hold on to the memories of the good times you all had together. Maybe, whenever you are ready you'll be able to read the posts on here & hopefully you can let us know how you are doing, we'd all love to hear from you because you are constantly in our thoughts.
Until then, take care of yourselves, we are all here for you if you need us.
All my love to you both
Tink
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Thinking of you both Tai and Charlotte....your dear, sweet, beautiful mum is looking over you now, and always will be.
You are not, and never will be, alone.
Lots of love, Heather xxxxxxx
My email is minerva_scotland@hotmail.com there's an underscore between them. Tai, would love to hear from you hon, if you ever want to. You know where i am. x.
-- Edited by Minerva on Tuesday 5th of May 2009 03:24:14 AM
I hope that Tai and Charlotte's curiosity does get the better of them and will come on in and read- because I know we are ALL thinking of them on a daily basis.
I had a very unique opportunity to speak with you mother, Tai and Charlotte- for just a little bit of time, before she left us all and I'll hold that conversation very close to my heart. I know she's still looking out for you, in a very spiritual sense and she will love you into eternity.
Go forward with your lives and take each day a step at a time, know that you were loved very dearly by her and she wants the best for both of you. Also, know that there are others here that you can reach out to, either privately or publicly- all of us would be thrilled to hear from either of you.
I do know, personally- that even though I live thousands of miles from you both, I still have a lot of concern over your welfare and that your pain is lessened each day- just hold those good memories close to you, for no one can ever take that away from either of you.
Tai and Charlotte, if you read this, i want you to know that your mum was a very special lady and we became good friends. I am glad to have had that chance.
Your mum loved you very dearly and was so proud of you both. I'd like you to know that i am thinking of you and will be here for you.
If you have anything you would like to ask, do so...and feel free to contribute anywhere on the forum. Your mum was very loved here.
