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Sure good to hear the happy tone in your post. You seem so much better. Now enjoy your successes and plan great things for the future.

Alan



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Excellent news, Murat, and I`m glad you`re pleased with your new shape! smile Once you get started with your new fitness regime there will be no stopping you...look out, ladies! 

Best of luck with your end of tx results, keep in touch and let us know!  ~  Jill



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Was Gen 3a, 

24wks Peg Ifn/Riba, Sep 2010 - Mch 2011

UND @ Wk.4, UND @ EOT, 

SVR Nov 2011 --> Still UND @ EOT + 4 yrs.

 

 
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So glad your treatment went well. Now you have the rest of your life to look forward to!

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Hi Murat,

Good to hear from you ! I thought you must be close to the end. You seem to have tolerated Rx well which is as expected at your age. Soon, HCV will be a distant memory and your new 6-pack should help with the fairer sex. All the best.



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Geno 1b, IL28B CT,  x3 prior relapser,  ex-cirrhotic, 75 yo, did 48 weeks with Victrelis/Peg./Riba.  VL 1.28m at start, UNDET. at 8 ,12 ,16 ,24 ,30  and 48 weeks.  EOT 15 Feb 2013 , UNDET. at EOT + 28 weeks. SVR!  Still Undet. at EOT +5 years

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I even lost weight during incivo period.. i took incivo with 20gr of olive oil with one complete lemon juice(3 lemon a day, this means too much l-carnitine)

I made all 24 shots to my stomach area i'm sure this also made fat burn.

02.08.2012 with 79kg (beg. of tx)

02.09.2012 76kg

02.10.2012 75kg

25.10.2012 74.5kg

12.01.2013 73.5kg

total 5,5kg lost... 3kg at first month!

now i'm gonna start fitness at beg. of february

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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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by the way, thank you pegasys :) for 24week fat burn side effect, now i have a excellent six pack stomach :D

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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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pegasys 24/24 completed! and last 5 days for riba...

all my blood values seems ok... i will take my 24weeks VL results in 10days.

and a new information from my doctor.. he said that with this triple treatment svr results will be determined 12weeks after treatment in near future, especially to patients who succeed UND at week 4 and 12.. no need to wait for 24weeks post.




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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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Merhaba Murat,

Congrats with your (almost done) tx and the results! Encouraging!

Did you actually lose weight during the last 12 weeks after you had finished with Incivek? How much have you gained first? How much did you lose later?

 



-- Edited by Bouba on Saturday 12th of January 2013 08:10:03 PM

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cmerduran wrote:

days are passing with depression... my heart is bleeding :(

i can't believe what i lived in last 4 month. My life was broken into pieces.. my love, my dreams, my happiness, my hopes.. in a word all my life...

I can't imagine how hard it would be to go through a break up while going through treatment. cry I am sure life seems real sucky right now, but try to remember you will be healthy and happy again soon.  I try to go to my mental "happy places" when I am down.



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Bouba wrote:

 woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

 

 



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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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Murat,

Today you should get your acts together and concentrate on the treatment. Ditch the virus andd  start a new and happy life. Perhaps,good for you, that it had happened now. You were betrayed and it would be much harder to go through this years after you get marrried. Look at the bright side... adding to John's humour here is another one (sorry, Ladies) :

 

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

Cheers!



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mallani wrote:

Murat my friend, don't despair. In 9 weeks you'll be HCV free. I know it's been expensive and traumatic, but you are young and can start again. Can you reopen your relationship with your ex-fiancee? Having HCV was not your fault, and a reasonable person should accept this. If this is not possible, count your blessings and get on with life. Remember that many of us are struggling with treatment, and may not get the results we want. Cheer upbiggrin

 i tried everything... i am sure that her family (esp. mother) attracted her.


i brought her family to the Professor who is one of the best at hep c (he applied investigation during inciveks labrotory work)..

They asked to doctor that if hcv will relapse in rest of my life?

Professor said that " at research reports, yes this is possible with %1 or less probability,, but when we discuss Murat's situation intimately; this is impossible because he had very rapid respone, he had great immune system, no damaged liver and he is young..
even now he can marry with your daughter without any risk because his hcvrna is und!!

3 days after the meeting, she said that nobody can quarantee that this wont relapse in rest of your life!!! cried and told me that she wanted to leave me.. :(

This was our last meet with her and she never called me again.. 



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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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Murat my friend, don't despair. In 9 weeks you'll be HCV free. I know it's been expensive and traumatic, but you are young and can start again. Can you reopen your relationship with your ex-fiancee? Having HCV was not your fault, and a reasonable person should accept this. If this is not possible, count your blessings and get on with life. Remember that many of us are struggling with treatment, and may not get the results we want. Cheer upbiggrin



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Geno 1b, IL28B CT,  x3 prior relapser,  ex-cirrhotic, 75 yo, did 48 weeks with Victrelis/Peg./Riba.  VL 1.28m at start, UNDET. at 8 ,12 ,16 ,24 ,30  and 48 weeks.  EOT 15 Feb 2013 , UNDET. at EOT + 28 weeks. SVR!  Still Undet. at EOT +5 years

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cmerduran wrote:

days are passing with depression... my heart is bleeding :(

i can't believe what i lived in last 4 month. My life was broken into pieces.. my love, my dreams, my happiness, my hopes.. in a word all my life...

 OK, here are five rules you can live by

1. It's important to have a woman who helps at home, cooks from time to time, cleans up, and has a job.
 
2. It is important to have a woman who can make you laugh.
 
3. It's important to have a woman who you can trust, and doesn't lie to you.
 
4. It's important to have a woman who is good in bed, and likes to be with you.
 
5. It's very, very important that these four women do not know each other.

 

 

Sorry, hope the humor is not to out of line....I have had my heart broken before, go to bed depressed and suicidal, wake up angry.  It is a slippery slope for sure, I can promise you this, it WILL get better and this experience will make you a better man for the next woman in your life.

Good luck,

 

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days are passing with depression... my heart is bleeding :(

i can't believe what i lived in last 4 month. My life was broken into pieces.. my love, my dreams, my happiness, my hopes.. in a word all my life...



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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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Ooooh, Trish... You are opening a completely new thread here biggrin



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 welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about the fiancee....but better to find out what kind of a person she is now then after you would have married her. Good luck.



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Hi Murat, good to hear from you, and particularly with your 12 week Undet. You are on course for an excellent outcome. Good luck for the rest of Rx and keep us posted with your progress. Cheers.



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Great news Murat, congratulations! biggrin It`s looking very promising for you indeed, keep up the good work!

Best of luck with the rest of your tx and thanks for updating us!  All the best, Jill xx



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Was Gen 3a, 

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UND @ Wk.4, UND @ EOT, 

SVR Nov 2011 --> Still UND @ EOT + 4 yrs.

 

 
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Congrats, Murat, and keep fingers crossed! You seem to be on a very good path for SVR... Good luck with the remaining 9 weeks.



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my 12th week results finally came this morning and it is still UND!!

currently i'm in 15th week of mt tx... and 9 pegasys left

now i'm waiting for end of treatment tests at january...

THANK GOD...

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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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Hi Murat, I presume you're in Istanbul to get offered Incivek. It's a shame it is expensive for you. I wouldn't worry about the Interleukin 28B test. It is an indicator of Interferon Sensitivity, and by your undetected, you have answered that question. The Stages usually refer to liver Fibrosis where F1 (Stage1) is no fibrosis, F4 (Stage4) is cirrhosis, and F2 to F3 are intermediate. You can only assess your stage by liver biopsy or Fibroscan- I'm not sure whether that is available in Turkey. Keep a record of all your tests, and ask any questions you like. We are here to support you.



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Geno 1b, IL28B CT,  x3 prior relapser,  ex-cirrhotic, 75 yo, did 48 weeks with Victrelis/Peg./Riba.  VL 1.28m at start, UNDET. at 8 ,12 ,16 ,24 ,30  and 48 weeks.  EOT 15 Feb 2013 , UNDET. at EOT + 28 weeks. SVR!  Still Undet. at EOT +5 years

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I never smoked in my life and used alcohol...

I enjoy living healty life and take care of my body. made fitness for 6-7 years. think my body thanks me and give such rapid response to treatment...

In Turkey, incivo(incivek) is very new drug and hard to find...

My doctor didn't offer me incivo at first... he would apply riba-pegint treatment at first.. then i made research and find incivo i imported drug from italy and my health insurance didn't pay it. I will pay totally $30.000 for all incivo during treatment. I'm the 14th patient in Turkey who uses incivo.

My doctor also said me that" incivo will be available for insurance system at end of 2013" but i couldnt wait any more because i didnt want to loose my fiancee... and want rapid solution for this virus.

I made lots of research about hcv... but i want to learn something? in Turkey doctors do not need to determine IL28B test may be it is a little expensive test i dont know... In europe or other regions, which tests are needed before treatment???

and one more question.. what is stage 1,2,3,4?



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28.07.12: HCV-RNA +, VL:7.1m, 1b
02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
*all men have fears but the brave, put down their fears and go forward... sometimes to death, but always to victory.
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Merhaba Murat, Welcome to the forum and congratulations on undetected so soon. At your age, you have an excellent chance of cure. Treat the HCV first and worry about the women later.



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Namaste Murat,

I think your multi lingual skills are good in my book. I googled the meaning of your name it had a couple but the one I like was " wish" ... So it is my wish for you to move forward with your life and take care of you..

I am sorry for the affairs of your heart, I believe that if it was meant to be, she would be there for you. Many are afraid of what they don't know so they leave.  The key is education, and I  know some things are cultral , and some is just ignorance because people rather walk around in the dark..I  understand  I work with people from all over the world.  May your light shine to show others there is hope.

Youth is on your side as Jill mentioned and from your description it sounds like your are progressing wonderfully.

Hang around here for support and encouragement with lots of tips and humor. stay connected...

peace and love

MJ aka Stephanieflowerpot.gif



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Welcome Murat..lots of info here..sometimes the anal-itch is bad enough..right.



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Hi and welcome to you, Murat, and congratulations on being undetected so early on, that is a very good sign!  smile It`s sad to hear about your fiancee but if she quit the relationship that easily then she would not have been right for you anyway.  You won`t be on your own here and I don`t suppose you will be on your own in the real world for long either.

It is good news that you have few sx (side effects) so far and impossible to say whether you`ll develop any more as you go along, although the fact that you are young is almost certainly helping.

Good luck with the rest of you tx (treatment) and I hope you get more good news with your 12 week results.  Keep in touch and let us know how it goes!  ~ Jill xx



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SVR Nov 2011 --> Still UND @ EOT + 4 yrs.

 

 
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Welcome Murat, you found the right bunch of people. Anything you need to know can be found here. Good luck!!



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Welcome, Murat. I am sorry to hear the news of the fiancé'. But right now you need to concentrate on your treatment. You have made an excellent start. I hope you continue to see undetected viral load. Please post regular reports of your progress, and of course ask questions if you have any. Your English is not so bad. I look forward to hearing from you often. Alan

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Hi to everyone, first of all i'm sorry for my bad english because i'm Turkish...

My name is Murat from Turkey.

28.07.2012

Viral load: 7.1million

Genotype: 1b

Alt-Ast: Normal

Weight: 76, Height: 1.82m

I started incivo, ribavirin and peg-interferon treatment at 02.08.2012

I used probiotics, artichoke extract, fish oil as supplements...

HCV RNA is undeteced at virus test at 28.08.2012 (after just 23 days)

Today(02.09.2012) is 31.day of my treatment, and i want to share my experiences with you...

Only side effect is anal itching :S there is no other side effects i lived i think i'm a little lucky maybe it is early i dont know...

Now i'm waiting for 12.week  and i hope it will remain undetected...

 



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02.08.12: incivo-riba-pegasys started
24.07.13: HCV-RNA: WEEK 3, 12, 24, 36, 50 UND(SVR!!)
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Hi Murat! So sorry about your financee. A lot of people are just scared to death of HCV, and I haven't told anyone I haven't had to for that reason. It sounds like you are well on your way to getting better so that's good.

P.S. I know it hurts now, but you're a nice looking young guy, and I bet you won't have any trouble finding a less paranoid woman to fall in love with when you feel like you want to try again.



-- Edited by LC on Sunday 2nd of September 2012 06:25:07 PM

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